“所有的指責都是在浪費時間。無論你找到別人多少的錯誤，無論你怎麼責怪他，都無法對你發生任何改變。
指責唯一的功能是，讓你逃避面對自己，不停地在尋找外面的原因來解釋你的不快樂或無奈。
也許你可以因為責怪別人而讓他感到愧疚，但你絕對無法改變是「你」讓你不快樂的事實。
如果有一天，你發現人生是一場戲劇，那麼你就會深刻的明白「一切都是你的投射」，在你所編排的戲劇中，無論劇情多麼荒誕無趣，你周圍的人都是因為愛才來配合你演出的！
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy. ”
--- Wayne W. Dyer
